It's not always because he/she cheated on you and due to public humiliation, you stand rooted and stood by your partner.
Standing by your partner includes every small decision and of course, the large ones as well.
But you don't realize how hard it is to stand solid on the ground until you're tested.
Its a true test of loyalty, patience and a lot of believing. Believing in someone is not easy. Believing that their decision will not harm the relationship you have is not easy. To stand grounded although your own beliefs beginning to shiver. To hold on to that thin thread of hope that things can move on and will be better.
I have been grounded for so long and all I wish for is that one day, I can kick back and relax. Sip a drink, reading a book and watch the world pass by. To be financially free.
And if one thing partners need to remember is that, every smart or stupid decision one makes... It will always, always, always affect the other partner too.
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