OWC

I wish that I get to meet someone, preferably a woman, from this club to explain to me in detail, the meaning of obedience in their context.

I can't help but to think over and over again about them as they spread further their wings, trying hard to plant these seeds of ideology.

Initially, I was taken aback. Did they say wife should be better than first class prostitute? Did they say that if wife are better in bed, the husband would not leave them/ stray/ mistress, whatever that may lead to a divorce?

And I tried very hard to think and justify their words. Especially so since it's supported by some women. Well, ok... A man is a man- egoistic, chauvinistic, whatever. Prideful, they are supposedly the leader of the family. So I guess, well if the wife let him do whatever whenever he probably thinks his wife is so great and etc. Well yeah, a wife duty is to serve the husband. But what exactly is this meaning of "serving"?

So you know what, I can't. I can't be any less mad at these women who think they can let these men get away with these ideas. Serving your husband dutifully is your duty whatever. But don't blame divorce on the wife's incapability to satisfy the husband. That is so narrow minded and trying a method called - one solution for all. So what are they trying to say- bad sex = wife's fault = husband straying/ gambling/ mistress = divorce? Omg. How much more dumb can this club be?

Let's start with sex.
Women associate sex with feelings. We don't normally have raging hormones, thinking bout sex 24/7. Wives got duties- some have to work while managing the house an the kids. So to get a women to have sex, apart from making her tipsy, is to make her happy first. A not happy woman = bad sex or even better, no sex.
Next, women takes time to get their body heat up. Once, I heard a joke- men are like microwaves and women, an oven. So if the man sucks at heating up the atmosphere, I'm guessing the lady can't be equal bothered as well.

Alright, done with sex. Let's talk about divorce.
Divorce are done mutually in most cases, if they don't already try to kill each other. Situations leading to divorce can be extensive. But look at this, it takes more than one factor alone to lead to a divorce. Don't blame bad sex for divorce. That makes you men look terribly dumb. There was a reason why you had gone down on one knee and asked her for a marriage. There was a reason that convinced you that for a moment you see your life great with her. Because she was pretty, loving, caring, strong.. Whatever your preference.
If you had strayed, was it truly her fault and solely, her fault? Afterall, it takes two hands to clap.

Until you get down to the bottom-line reason of why there is a rise in statistic for divorce, you will never get to solve the problem. Bad sex maybe a minute factor, probably more like morals and upbringing are preferably the point of reasonings. Sex cannot solve gambling addiction of a husband. Even good sex cannot solve a husband who has sexual addiction or a husband who cannot support the family. A marriage needs both parties to come together and work it out hand in hand.

And the best part, didn't this group also supported polygamy? How do you explain that then? A wife so obedient in bed and yet, a husband continue to seek for another wife. Bloody contradictions.

You know what I think, a woman who is submissive are the ones often get caught in these crazy problems. And ladies, if a man wants you to be obedient, taking everything and giving back nothing, leave that MCP (male chauvinist pigs)

We ladies deserve nothing less but a good true love from a man who understands and love us wholeheartedly. Don't go for anything lower. Oh, unless you're after his money.